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Want to learn how to party safely? Need to know who to call when your night out becomes a nightmare? Check out the resources below to learn more!

The NYC Anti-Violence Project (AVP) is here to support LGBTQ+ nightlife venues, patrons, and partygoers with accessible and practical information to stay safe and connected while out on the town. 

Upstander Intervention & De-Escalation

Whether you’re a business owner or a bar patron, sometimes you may have to break up an altercation or deal with unwanted attention. Knowing how to diffuse a tense situation and bring the energy down isn’t always easy, especially in a loud, overstimulating environment — that’s why knowing how to be an upstander and de-escalate a situation before it turns violent can be an essential skill. Check out some AVP’s quick guides below.

The 5 D's of De-Escalation
The 3 W's of Safety Planning for Queer Events
AVP Bar Safety English & Spanish

If your business organization, or community group is interested in booking AVP’s signature Upstander Intervention &
De-Escalation Training
, then click here to request a training today!

Know Your Rights – Interacting with Law Enforcement​

Knowing your rights when engaging with law enforcement agencies — whether they are local or federal — can be essential to protecting yourself and your community. AVP recommends the following community-based resources for safely interacting with law enforcement agencies: 

If you would like to get connected to AVP’s Legal Services, call our free English & Spanish 24/7 Crisis Hotline at 212-714-1184, or click here to request AVP’s Know Your Rights Training today!

Harm Reduction & Safer Partying 

Sometimes the best way to stay safe while out on the town comes down to making healthier choices – if you or a loved one is struggling with substance use, unsafe sex, or getting into risky situations while partying, consider reaching out to our trusted community partners at the Callen-Lorde Community Health Center and the Queer Nightlife Community Center (QNCC), or check out the following resources below:

Reach out to AVP’s Crisis Hotline at 212-714-1184 to get connected to free Mental Health & Legal Services or click here to book a Community Safety Training today!

Hate Violence (HV) Prevention

The past several years have seen a sharp increase in anti-LGBTQ+ violence, harassment, and hate speech — especially towards LGBTQ+ immigrants and transgender/non-binary community members. The following community-based resources provide a variety of information, resources, and skills you can access to protect yourself and your loved ones from hate violence: 

If you need to report an instance of hate violence, please call AVP’s Crisis Hotline at 212-714-1184For further support, please reach out to AVP at community@avp.org to request access to AVP’s Community Safety Toolkit, an extensive resource guide to protecting yourself and your loved ones from hate violence and harassment. 

Sexual Violence (SV) & Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) Prevention

Nightlife venues can often be place where LGBTQ+ patrons and partygoers can find themselves vulnerable, especially after a night of fun. Learn to recognize and respond to signs of sexual harassment, dating violence, and identity-based abuse with the following resources from AVP’s community network: 

If you or a loved one needs to get connected to AVP’s Client Services, which includes free short-term mental health counseling, support groups, and more, call AVP’s Crisis Hotline at 212-714-1184. 

TGNC & BIPOC Nightlife Safety 

Some of our most vulnerable community members live at the intersection of multiple forms of violence — that’s why it’s more important than ever to protect our Black, Indigenous, transgender, and non-binary community members. Check the links below to learn more about how to stay safe as a TGNC and/or BIPOC LGBTQ+ partygoer while engaging in nightlife spaces: 

 

Are you a business or organization that caters to LGBTQ+ clientele? Reach out to AVP and book a Professional Development Training to improve your team’s cultural competency skills. Click here to learn more! 

Community Partners & Organizations

Didn’t find what you were looking for? Consider reaching out to one of AVP’s trusted community partners below: