Yesterday, we hosted a Twitter Town Hall using the hashtag #Not1Story to discuss the findings from our 2016 report and build together for the future. We tweeted out four guiding questions, and our fantastic friends, coalition members, community members, and other LGBTQ and anti-violence organizations took care of the rest!
Here are some great responses from yesterday’s Town Hall. From the conversation, it’s clear that the LGBTQ anti-violence movement—in collaboration with other movements—will need to work to uplift the voices of people with marginalized identities, promote stories of resilience, survival, and ordinary joy, and work toward concrete goals, like affordable housing, support for immigrants, and truly community-based pathways for healing and justice. But it’s also clear from these responses that none of us are alone in this work. We must—and we can—come together to work together toward liberation and self-empowerment for all people impacted by oppression and violence.
Q1: How will we work in our everyday environments to end violence and discrimination to ensure all LGBTQ people can thrive?
A1: Step in as bystanders in the short-term, and work to change cultural norms in the long-term. #not1story @antiviolence
— Breakthrough U.S. (@BreakthroughUS) June 13, 2017
https://twitter.com/thenetworklared/status/874697877494394882
A1: Acknowledge that #nonbinary people exist in data collection and record keeping. Stop assuming gender based on appearance #Not1Story
— Jordan Rubenstein (@jwrubenstein) June 13, 2017
Cycles of violence can only end when we stand up and support targets when we see them being harmed—especially in public space. #Not1Story
— Right To Be (@righttobeorg) June 13, 2017
A1: We should follow and center the leadership of LGBTQ people for the creation of policy and programs in our communities. #Not1Story https://t.co/UW0TrjFBYD
— DCCADV (@DCCADV) June 13, 2017
"There is no thing as a single-issue struggle because we do not live single-issue lives." Audre Lorde reminding us our lives are #Not1Story
— BlackWomensBlueprint (@BlackWomensBP) June 13, 2017
Q2: This year we saw more hate violence online. Where else is hate violence happening that we need to be talking about?
A1: We have to address discriminatory legislation that condones violence against all LGBTQIA folks. #Not1Story https://t.co/2llZVu0PLG
— Women's March (@womensmarch) June 13, 2017
A2.LGBTQ youth face homelessness & disproportionate rates of interaction with the juvenile justice system. #Not1Story https://t.co/Eq5zuCt9Tz
— VALOR (@Valor_US_) June 13, 2017
A2. Immigrant communities, especially LGBTQ undocumented groups are at higher risks of being physically and sexually assaulted #Not1Story https://t.co/NGpEgHq8kg
— PreventConnect (@PreventConnect) June 13, 2017
We need data collection to include LGBTQ people, including in Census and National Survey on Older Americans #Not1Story
— TheTaskForce (@TheTaskForce) June 13, 2017
Excluding #trans women from #feminist spaces is a form of hate violence. Supporting #womensrights means supporting all women #not1story pic.twitter.com/hCfGRM9Ysj
— Her Justice (@herjusticenyc) June 13, 2017
Violence that happens in the home, or"behind closed doors" needs to be talked about, you can't stop what's not acknowledged #Not1Story https://t.co/ZDVX5I3O6b
— BlackWomensBlueprint (@BlackWomensBP) June 13, 2017
Pres. Trump & Secy @BetsyDeVosED rescinded guidance, leaving #transstudents at higher risk for harassment & violence. https://t.co/frjFC5RKwm
— Movement Advancement Project (@lgbtmap) June 13, 2017
Q3: What are some of the community-based pathways to healing & justice for LGBTQ people that will help us move forward?
https://twitter.com/shelbypearl/status/874695712306581505
Validation of trans youth. Validation of trans youth. Validation of trans youth. #Not1Story #antiviolence https://t.co/eeG5dcXNnN
— Hoodsey (@TodaysMadness) June 13, 2017
A3: Recognize emotional labor involved in this work as well. LGBTQ folks don't exist to educate cis folks. #not1story @antiviolence
— Breakthrough U.S. (@BreakthroughUS) June 13, 2017
A3: Community resources – esp DV/SA programs – must be accessible to everyone. Discrimination re-traumatizes people seeking help. #not1story https://t.co/yvc5VwajVH
— A/PI DVRP (@APIDVRP) June 13, 2017
We need LGBTQ affirming service providers. Only ~30% of shelter providers appropriately serve trans women #Not1Storyhttps://t.co/eXAF6gDcql https://t.co/N89qa52HG0
— LGBTQI+ Progress (@LGBTQIProgress) June 13, 2017
Affordable housing is a pathway to healing. It shouldn't be so expensive for survivors to leave homes shared with their abusers. #not1story pic.twitter.com/BopF0fqbAd
— zara | فلسطين حرة (@thezararaven) June 13, 2017
Letting LGBTQ community and survivors define what justice, healing, and reconciliation look like without assumptions #Not1Story https://t.co/DQEYQdvFvL
— BlackWomensBlueprint (@BlackWomensBP) June 13, 2017
Q4: Beyond stories about violence, what are stories about LGBTQ people that we need to be sharing with the world?
A4: We need to support those who are still with us, not just mourn them when they're gone. This means supporting TGNC folks right NOW. https://t.co/4tVymtRLA9
— Women's March (@womensmarch) June 13, 2017
A4. Creating opportunities for LGBTQ people & their stories to be represented through media & film. #Not1Story #RepresentationMatters https://t.co/fXv4zPYxO4
— PreventConnect (@PreventConnect) June 13, 2017
Share stories of average people doing average things! Some folks lead regular lives and that's okay too! #Not1Story #antiviolence https://t.co/LyoiAX0yUq
— Hoodsey (@TodaysMadness) June 13, 2017
Understanding the root of violence and oppression & consistently working at that level to dismantle/transform oppressive systems #Not1Story https://t.co/FvRSa7a9Ao
— BlackWomensBlueprint (@BlackWomensBP) June 13, 2017
https://twitter.com/thenetworklared/status/874703960480808962
https://twitter.com/ERanglero/status/874701864410939392
People need to know how we are loved by so many. #Not1Story https://t.co/aYeGjE1fyw
— IL-AI (@IL_AI_LGBTQ) June 13, 2017
In fact, there were so many great responses that we can’t fit them all here. Check out our feed at @antiviolence and the hashtag #Not1Story to read more.