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What is ‘cyberstalking’? 

Cyberstalking is a form of technological abuse in which someone uses technology and/or electronic gadgets to stalk someone online. Stalking is defined as a repeated pattern of unwanted attention, contact, or harassment intended to cause fear or harm. Lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people (LGBTQ+) as well as people living with HIV, or affected by HIV may be more likely to experience this type of online violence. 

Tips & Tools to Prevent Cyberstalking

Common examples of cyberstalking include

  • Tracking someone’s whereabouts via social media, electronics, and other technology. 
  • Creating fake accounts to follow someone on social media. 
  • Installing apps or hacking into devices to track someone’s online movements. 
  • Hacking into someone’s smartphone or laptop camera to secretly record them. 

Be mindful of apps that can be used to intimidate and track location, including

  • Social media websites that ask you to “check-in” (e.g., Facebook). 
  • Spyware that might be installed on your devices (especially if you share your passwords). 
  • E-mails containing suspicious attachments or links that could install software on your devices. 
  • GPS on your cell phones or devices that shows your location. 

If you are concerned that someone might be cyberstalking you

  • Trust yourself. If a person knows too much about where you are and where you’re going, they may be using technology to track you. 
  • Keep your passwords to yourself and change them regularly.  
  • Check your privacy settings on social media to make sure you’re not sharing your location. 
  • Cover your internet tracks: erase cookies, internet history files and your cache. 
  • Protect and limit your social media account: 
  • Make your accounts private 
  • Remove followers you don’t know or who have a relationship with the stalker  
  • Change your handle or name 
  • Use a photo that cannot be identified as you  
  • Don’t open email attachments from sources you don’t trust. 
  • Don’t accept social media friend requests from people you don’t know or trust.  
  • For iPhone users: use the Safety Check feature in your Settings to review and reset all access that anybody might have to your messages, app access, location tracking and other crucial info. 
  • Review the Clinic to End Tech Abuse’s Safety Checklist for technology violence.
  • Consider reporting the cyberstalking—see reporting section below 

 

Reporting cyberstalking

  • You can report cyberstalking to AVP and/or to the police. If you feel comfortable, contact AVP’s 24/7 hotline at 212-714-1141 or online at avp.org/get-help, as AVP tracks and reports on all forms of violence through our hotline and online reporting form. Additionally, or separately, you can file a police report. Having an official complaint on file will help if the behavior persists or escalates. 
  • If you make a report, get the assigned number of the Police Incident Report and ask for follow up steps 
  • Save evidence of stalking (screenshot texts, save voicemails) in case you seek legal protection. 
  • Report the cyberstalker to the social media / websites they have used. 

AVP Advocacy Unit can support clients experiencing cyberstalking

 

More Updates from AVP

We believe that a safer future is possible, but it is our duty to look out for one another and stand up for our most vulnerable.

If you have experienced hate violence, including IPV in an LGBTQ+ relationship, or witness hate violence, contact our 24/7 hotline at 212-714-1141 to report and get support.
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Liara was loved by many and was just starting a her new life in Minneapolis when her life was senselessly taken. Creative and caring, Liara loved music and worked as a producer and DJ by night, while working as a Crisis Counselor by day, making an immense impact on her co-workers and community.

According to multiple trackers, Liara is at least the 25th trans person to be killed in 2024, a number that is likely higher due to the misgendering victims by authorities and/or by family of origin.

If you are experiencing violence, intimate partner or otherwise, contact our 24/7 hotline to report and for support at 212-714-1141 or online at avp.org/get-help
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July 16 is International Drag Day!

Today we celebrate all of the fabulous and glamourous drag queens and kings from around the world! Continue to bring light, joy, and positivity into the world!
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As we close out Non-Binary Awareness Week, today we celebrate International Non-Binary People`s Day!

According to a 2021 study by UCLA Law`s Williams Institute, 1.2 million LGBTQ people living in the U.S. identified as nonbinary. Additionally, a greater percentage of nonbinary LGBTQ adults are cisgender rather than transgender.

Being nonbinary is also not conditional to one`s sexual orientation, however, it`s important to note that the majority of nonbinary adults use "queer, bisexual, pansexual, or asexual" to describe their sexual orientation as opposed to more binary-connected language.

If a person identifies themselves as nonbinary, that is non-negotiable, period.
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Join us tomorrow (Wednesday, July 10) for `Navigating Online Safety & Cybersecurity,` a free webinar designed for professionals and organizations facing online harassment and/or threats.

This workshop aims to provide participants with in-depth information regarding navigating digital security and safety, including how to identify and respond to online harassment, how to protect oneself from doxxing and identity theft, how to secure digital meeting spaces, and more.

`Navigating Online Safety & Cybersecurity` begins at 4:30PM on ZOOM.

Visit the link in bio to register.
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AVP`s office is closed for walk-in hours July 1-8, resuming on July 9th.

For support, please contact our hotline at 212-714-1141.
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FUSION 2024 was a success! Thank you to the amazing talent, generous sponsors, partners and most importantly, COMMUNITY, who attended and/or supported from afar.

Pride month may nearly be over but you can still support our work serving LGBTQ+ survivors of violence. Visit the link in bio to learn how your support makes a difference and to donate today!
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FUSION, our annual Pride party and benefit is TONIGHT!

Join us at REBAR Chelsea from 6-9pm for our annual celebration featuring a performance by the illustrious Julie J (@juliej.nyc), the Liberty Girls NYC (@libertygirlsnyc), and music from DJ M Samurai all in support of the LGBTQ+ community and AVP`s critical work.

Tickets are still available and start at *$25!

Get your tickets at the link in bio.

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FUSION, our annual Pride party and benefit is only TWO DAYS away!

Join us at REBAR Chelsea on Wednesday, June 26th from 6-9pm for our annual celebration featuring drinks, drag, and a DJ all while supporting the LGBTQ+ community.

Tickets are still available and start at *$25!

Get your tickets at the link below.

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FUSION, our annual Pride party and benefit is only ONE WEEK away!

The celebration of community will take place at REBAR Chelsea on June 26th from 6-9pm and will have drinks, drag, and a DJ all while supporting the LGBTQ+ community.

Tickets are still available and start at *$25!

Get your tickets at the link in bio.
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We are grateful and excited to share that, for the second consecutive year, Mischief Toys (@mischieftoys) will be donating the proceeds from their special 2024 Pride Gastley figure to AVP!

This VERY limited edition figure and matching pin releases tomorrow, June 19th, and is limited to just 385 of each.

We thank Mischief Toys for their continued support of AVP and the LGBTQ+ community!

See below for full product details and visit the link in bio to get your Pride 2024 Snazzy Daddy Gastley figure and pin while you still can!
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Product Information provided by Mischief Toys (@mischieftoys)
He`s snazzy.
He`s daddy.
He`s Snazzy Daddy Gastley!

Snazzy Daddy Gastley is dressed to impress and is ready to lead the pride parade! Limited to just 385 pieces and paired with a pin to match, this set is sure to brighten your day!

Mischief Toys, a designer toy company based out of Glen Burnie, Maryland, is proud to present their 2024 Pride Gastley figure! For two consecutive years, Mischief Toys has released a Gastley figure in support of the New York based Anti-Violence Project. This year`s pride Gastley has been nicknamed "Snazzy Daddy Gastley" due to his glamorous suit and bright, beautiful colors. Gastley stands at 4" tall and is packaged in a high quality colorful box to match his look and style. The figure comes bundled with a brand new "Snazzy Daddy Gastley" pin that measures approximately 1.7" tall and is perfect for your favorite pinboard, jacket, or any other display. The figure and pin are perfect for the collectors in your life and makes for the perfect gift this pride month. Get yours while supplies last at mischieftoys.com.

Release date/time:
Wednesday, 6.19.2024
12PM eastern

Figure:
LE 385
Material: Vinyl
Size: 4"

Pin:
LE 385
Material: Metal & Enamel
Size: 1.7" x 1.5"

www.mischieftoys.com
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As we have unfortunately already seen violence ranging from vandalism of the Stonewall Monument to the `possible` release of a chemical agent at Baltimore Pride, as we in community already know, we are a target of hate groups, and we must be as prepared as we can to face these threats should they arise in our safe spaces.

To help LGBTQ+ event organizers, venues and more with this safety planning, we are hosting a free, virtual Safety Planning for Pride webinar TOMORROW, June 18th from 3:30-5pm on ZOOM.

Designed for professionals and organizations aiming to organize events for LGBTQ+ audiences, as well as for event venues and their staff, volunteers, managers, and producers who want to think through some of the opportunities and challenges of creating safety and accessibility in their space and at the types of events they typically host. Participants will have the chance to engage in hands-on activities aimed at building specific, intentional safety plans using upcoming events as an example, and will overall learn about best practices for safety planning and violence prevention.

To register, visit the link in bio.

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Community safety is important, particularly during Pride Month, and to help LGBTQ+ event organizers, venues and more, we are hosting a free, virtual Safety Planning for Pride webinar on June 18th from 3:30-5pm on ZOOM.

Designed for professionals and organizations aiming to organize events for LGBTQ+ audiences, as well as for event venues and their staff, volunteers, managers, and producers who want to think through some of the opportunities and challenges of creating safety and accessibility in their space and at the types of events they typically host. Participants will have the chance to engage in hands-on activities aimed at building specific, intentional safety plans using upcoming events as an example, and will overall learn about best practices for safety planning and violence prevention.

To register, visit the link in bio.

#Pride2024 #PrideMonth
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Join us TOMORROW (Wednesday, June 12th) for a free, virtual Upstander & De-escalation Training from 4-5:30pm on ZOOM.

Designed for community members and professionals who want to be able to safely intervene when they see someone being harassed in public spaces or professional spaces. This workshop supports participants in assessing situations where harassment or hate violence appears to be a threat and includes opportunities to practice techniques to de-escalate situations while also considering their own and others’ identities and social dynamics.

To register, visit the link in bio.
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FUSION, our annual Pride party and benefit is right around the corner!

The celebration of community will take place at REBAR Chelsea on Wednesday, June 26th from 6-9pm and will have drinks, drag, and a DJ all while supporting the LGBTQ+ community.

Tickets start at $25*

Get your tickets at the link in bio.
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